Dear Readers,
Yay! Today is Friday, if Friday yet to begin it’s okay, (Whispers) we are travelling time.
Don’t you also travel time? look at your clock it’s running π come on!π
Coming to the topic
Walkaway from something unhealthy is good. But why do we fear to walk away?
Short Story
Sophia was in a toxic relationship with James. James use to torture and abuse her every night. Sophia was supposed to walk away from the relationship. But she was with him because of her 3 year old kid. She could walk away with her kid, but she has no job and she was not ready to leave her kid for any reason, she was afraid of the path she is going to travel. Even though we fear the other side, we all knew good things are on the other side of fear.
My thoughts
Sophia was not in the right place. She should’ve walked away from James for a better life. For Sophia the priorities set wasnt right, sentiments and financial pains, the fear of future. She is not happy and she is not living a good life, that should be the first priority. But for her, she was accepting her abusive relationship instead of walking away. That is not a brave thing to do.
This is just one real life scenario.
Not only a toxic relationship, you will have a toxic colleague, or toxic friends and toxic bad habits which actually ruins your life to death. Don’t be foolish to call yourself brave because you are facing the reality, walk away from such unhealthy relationships and peple. Be wise and walk way, walking away from something unhealthy is also “Brave”.
Thats my girl.. walk away…. π. Wait π§ is that a girl ππ€π₯Ίπ€ͺ
A quote for the day
“Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is Brave – even if you stumble a little on your way our the door – Mandy Hale”
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I love the quote. Yes, there are time when walking away is a brave thing to do. No woman should stay in a toxic relationship. But no mother should leave her kid, if she love her kid.
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π€¨ Strange… I’m pretty sure I already commented here together with a few bloggers… why I can’t see any comments? π€
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Hi Jessicaπ Thanks for your time β¨π€ I saw such people in toxic relationship, i was feeling very bad for them and i wish they shud be more brave and walk away with her kids. Hope things wil change β¨βΊοΈβοΈ Happy weekend β¨π€
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Hi Jessica βΊοΈ Sorry about that. I’ve been stalked by a stranger liking my comments and replying on everything and asking stupid questions. So i turned that comment manual approval. You have a better suggestionπ€. pls share. That stranger is not my follower unable to.block him.π
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Happy weekendβ¦ π€¨ This is so weird Simon!
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Oh … ahaha that explains it π
Sorry to hear that you’re a victim of this. I have a paid sites, so I can blocked annoying users and spammers. Huguette also had this problem and we found out there’s no way to deal with them than what you already did, except if you get a WP subscription π¦
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lot of weird things, yesterday had a chat with huguette abt it π indeed too weirdπ
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Ha ha ha π So the stragers exists to all of us ππ Then, I’ll walk away from them βΊοΈπ
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Actually in the story you mentioned, the 3 year old kid is a big factor. If the kid is 10 or older, things are different.
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Hi Peeyush, If the kid is 3 or 10, A toxic relationship is still toxic right. i felt she suppose to walk away. But she stil lives for her kid was my concern. Thanks for sharing your opinion.. β¨βοΈπ€ Happy Weekend πβ¨
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And I am curious t know as to where you get those animations from?
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Hey That was simple. You can simply download from google and also you can use WordPress while writing click the plus sign and select gif.
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Hey hey hey!!!π,i would love time travelingπ, we fear to walk away, because we never know what comes after i guessπ½, i never understand why people stay together because of children only, the kids can feel, that something is not okay and i think it can effect them too.
π€Better to walk away or just smash him?π
Finances is important, but there should be some help from states for singles mums, or family or friends? Who could help at least for very beginningπ
POWERFUL quote Simon and really great postπ
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Great quote and advise Simon! Nobody should accept a toxic relationship no matter what. We always need to fight for ourselves!
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Hey ilona, Thanks for your time. π€ Smash him ππ Good idea indeed π .. nice point that shud have someone to help at initial stage. Thanks for your kind words ilona β¨π€βοΈ Happy Mondayβ¨π
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When I experience anxiety, I am too scared to walk away. If I am not in an anxious situation, I have an easy time staying away.
I think it is fear of the abusive person doing something worse when they try to leave that makes it hard. When I sexually assaulted by my friend, I was scared to leave and force them to stop because I thought they would hurt me worse than they already were. Like pin me down or threaten me
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Hey Ribanna β¨ Thanks for your time, Indeed, people should fight back Thats the importanta point in this lost. Glad you liked itβ¨π€βοΈ Have a great week Ribannaβ¨π
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Hey Michelle! I appreciate you sharing this point. Everytime when i fear i get more anxious and just like you felt i feel the same way. But that situation is wrongz the wrong has to be made right and that should be you, me. Think about what happens after correcting the wrong. Think about a happy life after coming out of that bad time. Focus. It is hard to do. But doing that will only bring happiness. Be selfish to do it for a better life. β¨βοΈ I wish you an awesome week β¨π€
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You are welcome dear Simon, have a wonderful weekπ€π
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I agree. Doing whatβs best for you is best
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Hey Simon, great post! A person shouldn’t stay in a bad situation, it could end up getting even worse, maybe the kid getting hurt or abused as well. Best to leave. And there should be government help for people like this, we have that here, so finances are not a problem. Family could and should help too. Situations like this are dangerous. I hope your day goes well Simon!ππ
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Hey Steve! Thanks for your timeπ I do not know if there is such thing exist. I should do some research on it. This should help a lot of women like themβ¨ Thanks for the support Steveβ¨π€ Hope your day was beautifulβ¨βοΈ
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It is something that every country should have to help out women in these situations. That way they know there will be help for them and it makes it an easier decision to get out of there. It’s been a good week though cold and rainy. But I’m continuing to get better so that is good also. My day is beginning, a couple hours ago really, it’s 2C, still dark, might see the sun a bit today though which would be real nice! Enjoy your evening Simon!ππΊπ
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Yes Steve! Every country should have it. They have lot of schemes and benefits but i am not aware of most of them. I should know what ever exist and wil try to help out people in need. My god 2C seriously π Hope ur day gets more warm.β¨π€βοΈ Have a nice day…π
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Try to find out and maybe encourage that woman then to leave. Yep, cold here right now, some snow in the forecast for tonight,π₯Ά not much though. But warmer weather coming next week,π I hope anyway!ππΉπ
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Sure Steve! My god thats very cold. Hope you get the warmer weather soonβ¨π€βοΈ
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Just wait till winter arrives! That will make today feel like beautiful spring weather!ππΉBut we are supposed to get a few warmer days next week, but that can change too. Would be nice though.ππΊπ
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