Wait for the right moment
I am re writing my theories on life lessons, I know you all have read this before, I would only recommend to read this again as I wrote this in a 360 degree view, thinking from others perspective, applying all the answers I can think of.
I am going to ask you a question. Wait for the right moment? So assume you would give me one answer favorable to my question, and another one will give you an opposite answer. I have read many other blogs and people either say wait for right moment, or another set of bloggers say don’t wait for it, both looks very positive, but I do not want to judge which one is right, so here my answer for this question would be
Wait for the right moment; I split this advice into three parts
- You should wait for the right moment
- You are at the right moment
- You are not aware of the right moment
So my answer to this life lesson theory of wait for the right moment is three answers.
You need to wait for the right moment
Assume you are cooking a meat, you need to wait for the right moment to eat the meat so that you can taste it and enjoy the food, if you do not wait you are going to eat a raw meat and you are definitely not going to enjoy it, if you wait too much you are going to have a hard time eating a over fried meat. Here the goal is to have a satisfying food, and that can be yielded only if you wait for the right moment.
You are at the right moment
Assume you are a civil engineer and been jobless for years, and you are getting an opportunity in a small civil concern with a pay equal to an entrepreneur, and also you have a fund to start your own, When your KEY GOAL is only to earn more money, I would say you are at the right moment, you can either take up the opportunity at the small concern and gain some knowledge that will help your business grow better in the future, in either way you are going to win, why wait? When you can earn and learn at same time.
You are not aware of the right moment
This is more like a no win situation, the above two examples have a clear goal and a positive outcome to go for it. Here you know your goal but you have no clue where you are at it now. Imagine you have bought a stock and you got a rumor that the stock is going to fall down in minus in next half hour and one of your best friend says it is going to give you double benefit. You are not sure of the positive outcome and you are also not sure of the negative outcome which is kind of a no win situation and you just have to believe any one of them or take a smart decision to save your stock investment.
Wait for the right moment
This conclusion must look very diplomatic, as there is always another side, when there is a winner there is always a loser and there is also one with a minimal benefit. So this is my point, Wait for the right moment is completely based on the outcome of the action or situation one is going to face, without knowing one’s situation one cannot say they need to wait for the right moment or they are at the right moment or when they cannot think they cannot declare that they are not aware of the right moment. You must THINK, think before you do something, and ensure that something is favorable to you, and for your surrounding then go for it, do not wait. But before you realize you are at the right moment, ensure you are 200% confident about it.
Also, let’s be more practical, lot of people around us like me wanted you to be more positive on what you do, because that gives us confidence and it is also becoming a reason for success. But please be always prepared for the worse too, one cannot always win, there will be flaws, we are not a perfect creature, and we all do make mistakes, but please ensure you are learning from it and next time make it the right moment!
Thanks for reading….