It’s an edited version of my previous writing, Hope you’ll like it, if you have read before I recommend to read again, as you’ll see entirely different view.
Hate life? Can you hate life?
How can someone hate their life? I was shocked to listen and see people trying to kill themselves saying they are depressed, or having struggles in their life, that’s it? That’s it to be eligible to hate our own life?
I am asking this question to a set of people and I get different answers to justify and fill in all scenarios in the following, the answers are….
- No, I am happy, why should I hate my life?
- Yes, nothing good happens in our life, we can’t live happily.
- Yes, Kills themselves because they think to end their journey is the bravest thing.
- No, I am struggling, it’s part of life, but I will always find a way to stay happy
Here option A and D does not hate their life, and option B and C do hate their life.
They have never been into any trouble, if they had faced any difficulty in their life, they will choose any other 3 answers, if they are happy doesn’t mean they got no problems, they do have, but how did they survived it? This is a life everyone wishes for, to be happy without any trouble, in reality life is very uncertain, so always prepared for the worse and strong enough to face it.
They are not happy because there will be plenty of reasons, I cannot define another person pain through words, it has to be felt. And how strong one can take up the heat also matters. How many among us have done this, looking at someone in deep trouble and commented he should give up, the person who is suffering must decide what he can do, that person might feel it is not the worse situation or they live because another life is dependent on them or they will just complain as it part of their nature, they know the value of life which can be hated but not to lose it..
As I mentioned before, another person’s pain cannot be shown through words, it has to be felt. This category of people takes every single thing seriously or they have struggled and exhausted facing some issues or they don’t have the guts to fight the problems they are facing and they think they are very brave to lose the life instead of fighting. Losing a life is the worst thing one can do, this category are the ones that we read on news everyday die for silly reasons, and they did not have the strength to face the struggles and no one should gave up just like that.
These are far better options than Option B and C, you can find such people in your house, your Mother, your Father, neighbor or the beggar in the street, and they have so much of will power that whatever trouble comes in their life, they face it with a smile. These very much aware that struggles are part of life and the true meaning of life is to live happily, no matter where they are, what they are, they face every single day with a smile.
What makes someone hate this magical Life?
You all might aware that we are nothing but a miracle from star dust. agree? and we all are unique but we somehow fall into an illusion and try to fit in a box that is not for us and as a result we start to hate this “Life”.
Love = Life, a Life begins from an act of love; and outcome of a Mother’s love, Respect that.
In this universe a HUMAN’S life is the most magical ones than any other, we live the life as we wanted, we got love, we got feelings, tears, happiness, relationships, and aware of ulterior motive in life is to live life happily, so make a way for it. Our life is magical with a power called resilience, Whatever the situation is, we have enough capacity to recover from any difficulties.
I cannot suggest you to what changes you need to make, But, you just have to think and act, and the goal is to live happily. Life is very uncertain, take our current situation, corona is everywhere, so instead of thinking, worrying about it, just live smartly, happily and spread some love. In this short journey of life you might end up doing great things, always be ready to be the great, and be the one that inspire others.
Live the Life, Live the moment, There is no reason to hate it!
We are not given good or bad life, we are given a Life. It’s up to you to make it good or bad.
Let me share one example you might get inspired.
Anybody heard of the iron lady of Pakistan? Muniba Mazari, Read or watch yourself about her, if you think your life is still hard and you can’t live, let me know.
Thanks for reading!
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