Hey Dear Readers,
Are you shy?
Let me help you there.
Just follow the below points and voila you are shy free. 100% Try it, if you failed you can forget this post exist.
Stop labeling yourself Shy
You are shy, and it is not something to be proud of. So stop labeling yourself you are shy. You are letting your weakness out in the name of shy. Be strong and always tell yourself, you are brave and strong.
Tell yourself you are awesome
I am are awesome, say it again🧐. I am Awesome. That’s good, keep saying that. Because you are Awesome!
Look in the mirror and talk
Present yourself in front of your mirror, and talk to yourself and correct your mannerism and the way you talk, the way you move your hands. According to you, what seems perfect follow that, admire yourself and remember you are awesome. You have tons of you tube videos how to behave in front of crowds. You can simply copy that.
We all have that incredible thing
What is your incredible thing? I make stories, motivational stories to get the work done from people. That is my incredible thing. Each of you have an incredible thing, someone can take awesome photography, someone can talk simply for hours and entertain, someone can mimic others voices, someone is having good knowledge about books and techs, anything… Just embrace it. Bring out what is special in you. And expose.
Face your fear
This seems a lot weird, because you already hid yourself from all the shyness. But let me tell you this, face your fear to come out of one. It is hard indeed. I know. I still can’t drive in the night when it’s raining, it’s like a nightmare of drowning in flood. But every time it rains at night, i voluntarily takes my bike and go out, i am proud that i am trying it. are you?
Here is the hard part, Get yourself out from that bed. Yes its the hardest part, but please please do it, and do some workouts. You can do it in gym or at home. If you have a physical issue, consult your doctor the best workouts you can do to keep yourself fit. That boosts your confidence level from 20% to 80%
Groom yourself means, give some importance to your face. No i am not asking you to spend your fortune for beauty products. But a little to keep your facial hair trimmed and combed all the time and some wax or serum to keep that uneven hairs hidden and make your hair look fresh and live. This way when you look at your mirror, your shyness just disappears from 100% to 0% shy.
Thanks for reading.
I’m sure some of you have a lot to comment about it. Just do it. Don’t be shy.