Is this tradition or belief?

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Thanks to blogger Ptrikha for the edit and collab of this beautiful Topic.

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After seeing an instagram post, i thought let’s write about it. You can see that post in the end of this blog. That post is from “Indianwomenblog” page of instagram.

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This is going to be a content that what people really care? and what? about….. “Women”. Need to know is this a belief or a tradition. I’m trying to say what they really need to care instead of following some blind ruled that’s been shoved into society for NO GOOD.

Is this a belief? or a tradition?

I am from India and from the southern part of it. Here i see one of the common issue i see is giving importance for something, or should i put up as only “Onething” they actually care about Women.

What they really care? it is purely about a set of population, i am not blaming everyone. I have no idea what people really cared about women. They put lot of equality posts, feminist, women rights posts and lot more on one side supporting women.

On the other side women are forced into marriage after a certain age limit, they hardly care about their Job, ambition, or goals or they don’t care even if they come out as bi or lesbian. They should get married. Is it a tradition? or belief?

After that what happens? they must fulfill their basic responsiblity. What was that? BABY! they are not baby machines, how why this is still a pressure for women? If they didnt bring a baby they think there is a problem and go for IUI, IVF, Laparoscopy. OMG! Why should a women go through all these procedures when it is involuntary.

According to society Women are very important in giving a birth because they are baby machines.. For a set of people this is the belief or can i say a tradition that all women must adhere to it.

Their culture “Got married? ok now get me a baby!”

What should they care?

If giving a birth is so important for a woman? So does her career, self development, milestones and travel plans.

Woman love to be a mother. No woman can deny it. But it must not be a forced one. If they wanted they will go any distant for a baby.

But why is it forced? is this a tradition? or a belief?

Here on one side proud to read successful stories of this woman after marriage Meera Cheema at her 40’s.

On the other side it is painful to see a lot of young women in a hospital waiting to get pregnant after giving up their career dreams and personal goals, Is it because someone forced them to do it, or because of the pressure from their community or society.

Well I have seen that extremes never help. I have heard and seen women shouting for women’s rights and feminism, when they themselves make other womenfolks lives miserable.

But then we have people who marry off girls at a small age. I know of people who do not allow their own women to wear jeans, which is no way a revealing dress, but ogle at other women.

And sadly, it is mostly a set of women who are obstructing other women progress, or making life miserable.

A lot needs to change!!

Below is the post from the Indianwomenblog that made me write this topic.

Thanks for your time ✨✍️

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