How to escape from “?” argument?

Everyone here must have come across lot of heated arguments, Lot of arguments you may have won, you might have lost. Arguing is fun, arguing is business, arguing is sometime… “Waste of Time” and those are “?” arguments.

“?” = Cluless, Pointless, Answerless whatever name you use to say that as an useless time eating argument.

How do you find you are in a “?” argument?

In a short time you will realise what kind of argument you are in, most such argument will be 99% heated one.

You can also realise does it mean something productive or it is going to benefit them for good.

You will not understand their question. Some time you will understand, but you very well know the question itself wrong.

I remember when i was a kid my parents were having a heated argument and i enter there all of a sudden and yelling “damn the food is hot!” the look from them๐Ÿ˜‚ awww ๐Ÿ™„ terrific.

How can you escape?

Stop arguing! and try to come out of it. Because you are wasting your time.

Don’t talk back and don’t try to prove you are right, the opposite person may not be in the mood to understand your point.

Listen and acknowledge, tell them to give some more time to share an update about it.

All bloggers are more brilliant and wiser people than i ever met. I’m sure you all have a bag full of wise choice to escape from such situation.

I dedicate this legend quote for you all. He says exactly what i have in my mind.

And he did too.

Thanks for reading โœจ๐Ÿค—

I hope you all have come across such situations, Drop your experience in the comment box โœจ Would love to read it.

And this is how i see them when some one wasting my time with a wrong argument๐Ÿ˜‚


Wish you all a Happy Weekend โœจ๐Ÿค—

๐Ÿ™And my prayers to people on western ghats and specially for those who affected on floods ๐Ÿ™ People from Karnataka, Maharastra, Kerala, Hope you all are Safeโœจ


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23 thoughts on “How to escape from “?” argument?

  1. Well I agree and disagree. As a lawyer, I think arguments bring our ideas and clarifies thoughts. I am not talking about heated pointless arguments, but directed and productive ones. For instance debates have been a part of Indian culture. I can recount the so many debates we have had at law school. Amazing sessions.

    But I agree completely with you on how arguments on emotions can get pointless. They may, even spoil relationships.

    So I would say, let us have arguments based on reason, not on pure emotions. Let’s debate, discuss and give the others a chance to express the opposite view too.

    Cheers !

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  2. Hey! Thanks for the time โœจ๐Ÿ˜‰ Precisely! as i mentioned in the start of the content, Argument is a business and fun and its a needed one. But a “?” arguments is waste of time and emotion โœจ๐Ÿค— Glad you got my point and thanks for the wise comment. โœจ๐Ÿ™‚ Hope u had a great day! Wishing you a Happy Weekend!

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  3. Rightly said, arguing without a good reason or just for the sake of winning it is a waste of time. Sometimes we try to show the world we are flawless in hopes that we will be liked and accepted by everyone, but we canโ€™t please everyone and we shouldnโ€™t try. The beauty of us lies in our vulnerability, our complex emotions, and our authentic imperfections.

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  4. I would like to take nap in the middle of argument ๐Ÿ˜‹
    I’m so scared of arguments. Why..let peace bloom ๐ŸŒบ
    Great post Simon ๐Ÿ‘

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  5. Hey Lily! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Honestly i hate tat too. But im in a position to answer people with such arguments ๐Ÿ˜‚ What i tell them? dont waste my time ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‰ Thanks for ur time โœจ๐Ÿค—

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  6. Very true Simon! I know this so well. While some arguments are productive, others are just a waste of time. Fun fact: one of my friends broke friendship with me because I wanted to drop the matter of argument and resume normal life because she wanted to argue anyway ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

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  7. Hey Saania โœจ๐Ÿค— Good point, we cant please everyone and shouldnt try to be. Love the last quote. โœจ Wish you an awesome weekend โœจ๐Ÿฅฐ

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  8. Hey Ramyani! Thanks for the time. And look at here, tats the problem with these people. They want to argue anyway๐Ÿ˜ฒ. She broke the friendship for that?๐Ÿค” hmm a strange piece. manufacturing defect though. Never mind โœจ๐Ÿ˜‰ Wish you a great Weekend โœจ๐Ÿค—

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  9. I agree with you Simon and after long experiences with arguments I also quote someone who said that people will only hear what they want to hear so itโ€™s good to give our opinion and leave, it will eventually stick if the other party is willing to receive otherwise they are free
    Some people will always say itโ€™s black even if itโ€™s white so itโ€™s absurd to argue with them!
    Great post Simon and also my prayers to the people you mentioned as well ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

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  10. Hi Simon ๐Ÿ’ž
    You are absolutely right!! Arguing for trivial matters is just useless!!
    Very nice post! And also my prayers to the people of Karnataka, Maharastra, Kerala.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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  11. Yeah, it was a lame argument and the actual problem was not between us. I told her to drop the thing and talk about something else. She said she can’t. So we stopped talking ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
    I am at peace now. That is the problem … Right!
    Have a nice weekend too๐Ÿ˜Š

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  12. I agree. Arguing to win is pointless when both people arenโ€™t in the right mental state. There is no right or wrong answer in pointless arguments. I think these types of arguments are people who have a need to always be right and think they know the answer to everything

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