Life Lessons Vers 4 – Loser!

Hi Everyone!

Can I ask you a question?

Are you a loser?

I may have asked a weird question, But I am asking with a reason.

Who defined Loser?

After losing we who really told us that we have to be sad? Or we should cry? Or we should try to harm ourselves? Or we should feel it emotionally?

Someone did! So we all do it. That is the bitter truth about the feeling we adapted generations to generations.

Loser is just a word. It is NOT an emotion.

What really happens?

Assume we are in a battle. Two Warriors are fighting, they both did. One Lose, One Won.

What is the defeated warrior will do? I would like to simply explain this by this quote by Robin Sharma.

“And when I fall, I get back up, dust myself off – and I start again.

Wiser, Stronger, and more committed. Just like you.” Robin Sharma


This is what you should do. When you lose, realize you did lose. Get back up. Dust yourself off and start again.

Stop watching too much movies, stop being so dramatic at whatever you lose at.

Being a loser is not a shame. Be Proud. Imagine a million time loser can still write a book about his losing history. There he becomes an “inspiration” a winner!

Everything is all about how you take it. Hope now you all understood the emotions we adapted for a word “Loser” is forced upon us through movies and people.

Think different. Be different. Let’s make a different Generation, with different meaning.

Stay Proud!

Thanks for reading✨🤗

To read my previous life soup’s refer following links

Life Lesson 3 – Humble

Life Lesson 2 – Hate Life

Life Lesson 1 – Do it


13 thoughts on “Life Lessons Vers 4 – Loser!

  1. Hey Lily✨ So you are a loser too. My entire childhood was a total failure. I learned a lot from it. So proud to be a loser, as you are a winner now✨😉 Stay Proud! Stay Positive✨ Like manoj said here “A winner was once a loser”✨✍️

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  2. Great share Simon! The word itself is used as an offense and this what’s making people down when hearing it, and sometimes they say it to themselves which is so wrong! The fact that you’re not like X or Y doesn’t mean you’re a loser! The fact that you lost a battle means the same, like the example you give, we need to continue the struggle and many losses sometimes are necessary for the big win!
    So inspiring Simon 😊

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  3. Thanks for the support Huguette. Thats a good point, people call themselves as loser, and it’s a result of cinematic experience or the way society feeds people thoughts, I’m glad you liked the post and for sharing your thoughts. Thank you for your time✨🤗

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  4. Loser is a created brand patented and registered by fools who thinks they’re so great. Next time someone call you a loser just smile knowing that the problem isn’t you.

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  5. Great post!
    When times get tough, our worst battle is often between what we remember and what we presently feel. Thus, one of the hardest decisions you will ever have to make is when to stay put and struggle harder or when to take your memories and move on. Sometimes you have to step outside of the person you’ve been, and remember the person you were meant to be, the person you are capable of being, and the person you truly are today. And the truth is that, It’s always possible to go on, no matter how impossible it might seem.
    “If you want to grow and move on to better things, you have to give up the things that hold you back.”

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