Petty – Concern

This is…. uhh… hmm… why dont you scroll down and read it 😁

U might have reacted like this πŸ˜‰ But I’ll tell you this.

Let me start with a short story.

Dave is our hero. Lan is one of his colleague he had known for a long time.

Dave respect Lan so much like a father.

They both didn’t talk much as their work didn’t let them. Then one day He got text from Lan. Lan was Concerned about his problem, Dave status on whatsapp read by Lan. The only guy replied is Lan. His respect towards Lan has gone next level. He was so happy that Lan really cared about it. He gave a deep sad reply on his thought.

Lan’s reply is not expected by Dave. Lan asked him an immediate Job to finish and asked him to come to office. He just said β€œNo”. Lan did’nt respond.

Let me take you through this scenario again. How many of you have such kind of friends? How many of you have come through such situations?

You must notice, People are acting like they are concerned about you. But they are really not. People who really cares about you will not cut off their text. So post your schooling and college you will have a hand count of friends who really truly care about you. Sometimes Zero (Example: Simon).

I would like to convey a simple message. When we need something we just have to ask. We do not need to create a personal bonding or empathy, which is absolute Fake.

I can’t Pretend, How about you?

Realise Now, When you get such text message or a call, i am sure 99% are having a request behind that how are you πŸ˜‰.

“Be careful who you pretend to be, You might forget the real person you are” – Unknown

Thanks for reading πŸ€—

Do Comment about how you feel about this. Im glad to hear ✍️


10 thoughts on “Petty – Concern

  1. Agree! and when people act like dey really care is most painful. We know very well it is fake. But they still pretend ✨Stay aware✨Stay positive✨ Lets avoid such people and change them for goodπŸ‘

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  2. β€œThey will make you feel lonely even if they are always with you.” This is such a miserable truth but sadly people like them do exist everywhere. But real situations will always expose a fake friend, then you know who to cut off from and who to stick with.

    (This comment was supposed to be for the one posted yesterday, anyway, enjoyed reading bothπŸ‘)

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  3. Great, yes I noticed πŸ‘
    Also, just wondering, why do you always say Saniaa, it’s Saania πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

    Saniaa looks cooler though haha, you can call me that πŸ˜‰

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  4. Thank you Simon for sharing this subject, I’m not sure I got the conversation to be honest πŸ™‚ If you meant pretending we care for someone because we need something, yes it’s always bad! The relationships between people are categories and some people are not our friends and we might need them so we can simply ask without pretending we care, we ask and it’s about them to help or not, about me, I make sure to return the favor or pay for it! As simple as that πŸ™‚ Have a good day!

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